First DateA lot of the communication that goes on between human beings is non-verbal. While we tend to think that most of what we say comes out of our mouths, the fact is that a lot of it is communicated through our actions and our body languages. In the case of a woman who is interested in a man who does not seem to notice her, she will throw the man several non-verbal signs hinting at her interest, before resorting to blatant verbal phrases that communicate her feelings. Right now, even though you don’t know it, there might be several women you’re connected with that might be dying for you to ask them out. The following are a couple things to watch out for, in case you’re suspicious of anyone.
Her flirting is becoming really obvious
Normally, when women go about the act of flirting, they do so in a subtle way, leaving the man to question whether or not she was even flirting in the first place. However, if she’s flirting with you in a way that is completely obvious, then she is in all likelihood totally dying for you to ask her out. Women with particularly strong desire for a man will make that desire clear and obvious through the act of blatant flirting. The way dating works, the man is supposed to ask the woman out, so women are perpetually stuck in a position of waiting for the object of her affection to make a move on her. If she’s really interested in you, and you have not yet made your advance, then she will make the job easier for you by making it obvious for you and everyone else in the room that she’s really into you.
Her body language is out of control
Body language is the main communicator that we use in order to interact with each other, and it’s usually a subtle form of communication. However, sometime it can be not so subtle, particularly in cases where a woman is trying to communicate something to a man that she is interested in. If she is really into you and you have not yet made your move on her, she might resort to obvious body language attraction maneuvers to swing your attention her way. She might be exclusively playing with her hair every time she speaks to you, or she might be constantly blushing and looking at her fidgeting toes. Every woman has her own way of communicating attraction through body language, and if you still have not asked her out, she’ll practically through her body language autobiography at your face in order to get you to notice her.
She keeps breaking the touch barrier
When women break the touch barrier often, it means that they really like you. If she is breaking the touch barrier more often then normal, then she is practically bursting with suspense regarding when you’re going to ask her out. Perhaps she keeps rubbing her body against your shoulder, or she keeps playfully nudging you whenever you say something funny. Again, every woman has a unique way of breaking the touch barrier, so look out for how she does this and how often she does it.
She talks about a one night plan together
Eventually, after she tries throwing all assortments of subtlety towards you to no avail, a woman will start taking things in her own hands when it comes to going on a date with you. One day, out of nowhere, she will begin talking about a one night plan that revolves around you and her. She might casually throw out the idea of you two spending the night together doing various activities. She might even hint that the night could end in your apartment. Who knows — it all depends on how crazy you drove her while you were ignoring her signs. Once she elaborately starts talking about a one night plan with you, you know that she is really into you.
She practically sets the first date up herself
The final straw for a woman, after the man has ignored every single one of her advances, is to practically set the first date up herself. You might notice a woman come up to you one day and ask what you’re doing that weekend. You’ll say nothing, and she’ll mention a brand new restaurant that just opened up, then you’ll have no choice but to ask her if she wants to go with you. This is a woman’s hail mary play, and it works every time. As men, we tend to be a little boulder-headed when it comes to picking up the signs a woman throws at us, so something women need to take things into their own hands.
